Most women are trash. Whether they’re older like a mother that never apologizes. Or younger and has accomplished nothing but wants to be treated like a “queen” while acting like a child and/or a stripper. They are never responsible for their behavior/ reaction. Not in control of their emotions. They are toxic. Sadly makes sense why some guys use them and treat them like they mean nothing. But that only makes it worse because the same toxic woman will then say “well if a guy can do it, so can i”. Your only option as a guy is to just be friends with them, wait and hope to find a hidden gem (they exist) or choose from the lesser of the evils.