Sex Tape

Updated on November 1, 2021 in Issues
1 on June 6, 2021

So porn is wrong I see that clearly now. Is it wrong or should I say is it disrespectful to want to make a sex tape with my girlfriend? Is me asking her like a violation of privacy or something? Sending nudes is cool but there’s nothing like watching you and the woman you are in a relationship with really getting into it. That’s my opinion. I just want to use it for my own pleasure and i really wouldn’t want acting to see it it’s for my eyes only i would be mad if someone else saw it. Basically, am i a scumbag for wanting a sex tape? Am I exploiting her for her body and using her or am I really just reasonably asking for something to like do the deed with when she’s not around if you know what I mean like am I a sexist pig or am i rightfully asking for something i deserve? Can you even deserve something like that? My ex girlfriends both wanted to make sex tapes without me even bringing it up but I just don’t want to mess things up by wanting one. I just want to have some different content for when she’s not around but is that wrong I almost feel bad she’s said no for a while then today she said yes and I kind of feel like a Dick because idk if she’s really just saying it to appease me or if she’s actually comfortable doing it. We’ve been together a while and I watched on a few times and I’m not blaming it on the fact that we didn’t have one or that I didn’t have any fresh nudes but I just feel like if I had one I’d never want to watch porn again. Is that manipulative or a valid argument? Help me please before the next time I have sex with her (probably later tonight or tomorrow) I don’t want to do it if it’s wrong obviously I want it but I don’t want to do something she doesn’t actually want to do i don’t want her to change her morals and values for me. She’s had videos like that with other guys she said before she “didn’t trust me with it” but I never gave her a reason not to trust me I would be incredibly jealous if anyone caught a glimpse of our intimate moments. Just tell me what to do please. I’m so conflicted I’m super Fucking excited to have a sex tape with her i don’t keep explicit photos or videos of exes I seriously only have her bad stuff but I’m super excited yet I almost feel like I’m a terrible person for wanting it bc I want to be sensitive to her and her feelings.

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*I’m sorry that I’m so late to this topic.

No, I don’t think you’re a creep, however, that depends on the way you approach this situation. If you continuously nag her about it then I don’t think she’d see you as her intimate partner anymore, more like a guy who wants to make porn with her. Moreover, If you really want to do it then get intimate, be real with her dude, convince her that you’re not doing this cause it feels good but because you love her.

Man, that was really corny.

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